If you found a co-worker who has some smell, how do you do when you want to tell he/she that he/she smell bad? I know some solution but I think these solutions aren't the best solution to use if you don't want your co-worker shy.
I will tell you some cause of smell as I know:
1. Clothing stale, it usually found in rainy season or person who stay in the closing room because their cloths don't get some sunny or can't ventilate the wind enough.
2. Perspiration or sweat, is usualy blamed for odour, but the actual cause of body odour is dead skin cells and bacteria which is decomposing on your body (http://hubpages.com/hub/How-to-tell-a-friend-they-have-BO.)
3. Illness, smell will appear when you illness such as apthous ulcer, it is hard to solved.
These have many solutions to solve it but I don't know what I write is the best solution or sometime it don't work:
1. Clothing stale,
- the best solution is re-washing and dry clothes in the air.
- If above solution doesn't work for you, you should soak before washing.
- Next, you should change your washing powder and test it again until you can found the good washing powder for you.
- Another thing, add washing powder and 1 cup white vinegar to the wash cycle to deodorize the fabric.
- And the last I found is use Stir 1 cup baking soda into 1 gallon hot water. Dip a clean cloth into the deodorizing solution.
2. Perspiration or sweat, you should use some spray or roll-on but the best is an alum because it don't make our people was been stain and cheaper than another.
3. Illness, I'am sure in this case, cure yourself to healthy -- smell will don't appear. And the important thing is drink water so much.
But how I tell friend or another person? I have some ideas but when I actual meet this event, it's hard to tell them. Why is it so difficult to tell a friend that she has body odor? The answer is easy, you don't want to embarrass your friend, you don't want to hurt her and most of all you don't want to risk your friendship with her. I will tell you some idea:
- Tell a close friend of them to tell them again because I think if I know from a close friend, I feel shy less than another person come to tell.
- Sometime, event though the close friend can't help you to tell them. It's final solution of you to tell them yourself.
- Use a little tact and tell the truth, but be sympathetic without being patronising, sounds difficult and it is, but you are this persons best friend and this friend needs to be told that they have body odor before someone starts spreading the news around and her life is made hell by the nasty snide comments.
- Tell your friend that you have noticed recently that she is sweating alot, ask her if anything is wrong, sweating can be brought on by alot of factors, stress, puberty, heat, hormonal changes and many others, it could be that your friend is having personal problems and she has stopped caring for herself properly.
- When you tell them about body odor, you should tell them about the solution too.
Above is only an information that you must do and you must think the word you can tell them yourself. Do you have some words that help me, pls. tell its for me too. Thanks a lot!
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